erogappa: (tattoo -- vegging out)
Sha Gojyo ([personal profile] erogappa) wrote in [community profile] thefarshore2018-09-13 09:59 am
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erogappa: (smoking -- th'fuck did you say?)

Anon forever

[personal profile] erogappa 2018-09-14 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
What if you are a shinki and don't know what home feels like?
galrarm: (but he was definitely bonered.)

[personal profile] galrarm 2018-09-16 06:24 pm (UTC)(link)
In that case... it's safe and warm. It's the kind of feeling that makes you feel like you're capable of anything.
erogappa: (shade -- are you fucking with me rn?)

[personal profile] erogappa 2018-09-16 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Like trust, you mean? Like you trust the person?
galrarm: I'm talkin' 'bout that dank herb! (shit's popping off)

[personal profile] galrarm 2018-09-16 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Exactly.
I can only speak for myself, but it's always been what I find the most comfort in.
erogappa: (look -- indestructible girlfriend?)

[personal profile] erogappa 2018-09-16 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Could you love somebody you didn't trust?
galrarm: I'm talkin' 'bout that dank herb! (she just doesn't like spiders that much)

[personal profile] galrarm 2018-09-16 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Personally, no.
If there's no mutual trust, it would be difficult to open up, in any way, to the other person.
erogappa: (smile -- shy)

[personal profile] erogappa 2018-09-16 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a friend in this situation. She loves this guy, but there was a long time where she wasn't sure about him. She thought he was lying to her all the time, all his friends are jerks to her, and it's hard. Now she thinks that he might be an okay guy, and she says that she loves him, but how can she trust somebody who she didn't trust for so long?
galrarm: They reminded me of Josiah (I looked into his eyes.)

[personal profile] galrarm 2018-09-16 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
[ Hmm. Shiro has to think about that for a while. ]

It sounds like a complicated situation, to say the least.
But I'm not your friend, and your friend isn't me. Love is different for everyone--just because I have an opinion of it doesn't mean it's the only, or the right, opinion.
If she loves him, then she loves him. And trust isn't so cut and dry; it's possible to build trust with someone even if it wasn't initially there.
Are you worried about your friend?
erogappa: (shade -- are you fucking with me rn?)

[personal profile] erogappa 2018-09-18 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I'm worried for them both.

He needs to prove that he's not a jerk any more, but how would he do that?
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