chickshades: (bar)
Saburouta "San-chan" Bandou ([personal profile] chickshades) wrote in [community profile] thefarshore2016-09-13 04:19 pm

COMPLETELY ANONYMOUS POST!!

When: April 25th
Who: ANON. YOU WILL NEVER KNOW!

give me some dating tips




[ All replies will be in anon unless otherwise noted in the tag header. Which will prob happen more than Bandou means for it to. ]
mybadhabit: (We will be revered again)

[personal profile] mybadhabit 2016-09-14 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)
It's called flirting, anon, and if you do know how to do it well, it's not creepy. You asked for dating tips, you're getting dating tips. Don't be so ungrateful.
mybadhabit: (Liars settle into sockets)

[personal profile] mybadhabit 2016-09-14 05:50 pm (UTC)(link)
That doesn't mean I don't enjoy flirting? It's a form of wordplay that requires wits, cleverness, and the ability to read and respond to another person appropriate. It's fun, and can be used to gain friends and allies as well as romantic partners.

Besides, even if I'm not interested in romantic pursuits, if someone initiates flirting with me, it still makes me feel good and feeds my voracious ego. I'm asexual, not asocial.
mybadhabit: (Whatever it takes!)

[personal profile] mybadhabit 2016-09-15 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Enough, but certainly less lately. If you want to learn how to make people want to flirt with you, get a sense of style, hang out where people tend to congregate, and as has been stated before, don't be desperate about it.