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deniles ([personal profile] deniles) wrote in [community profile] thefarshore2017-12-06 11:53 am

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FROM: Anonymous
DATE: Sept 22nd

What's the best way to show thanks to someone?

Besides saying thank you. I want to do more for someone, but I don't know how.
pure_radiantics: (convo] friendly smile)

Forever not lol

[personal profile] pure_radiantics 2017-12-09 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Ooh, like ice cream! Or uhm, what did I see... fondue!

As for a vacation... I'm biased because I love the beach, so going somewhere with a beach would be awesome. I'd think about this person, though. If they like being with only one or two good friends, maybe a camping trip together! If they like being around a lot of people and feeling normal for a change, maybe an amusement park or circus or fairgrounds. If they like learning, there's lots of big cities where you can hit museums and art galleries and guided tours of a city all in one day!
pure_radiantics: (convo] hopeful smiling)

[personal profile] pure_radiantics 2017-12-14 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes just asking can be the most thoughtful thing! Rather than doing something on the fly without checking with the other person, if they're not that fond of surprises. Everyone's different.

Besides, if you ask now, you'll know better for next time! Taking their feelings into account like this already tells me you care.
pure_radiantics: (convo] huh. interesting.)

[personal profile] pure_radiantics 2017-12-18 06:00 am (UTC)(link)

Well but... I can think of only a few circumstances where anyone can guess what someone else would like without asking them. I don't think you should feel bad about it at all! Is this for some special occasion, like a birthday, that you're trying to put so much into surprising them? Otherwise I think working so hard to make someone's wish come true - that you know is their wish - is really admirable.

pure_radiantics: (convo] unsure)

[personal profile] pure_radiantics 2017-12-20 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
Important reasons are good ones! Uhm... what else...

Oh! This one's a little more dicey, but would it be possible for someone else to ask for you? It'd have to be someone who you trust to communicate well, otherwise there could be some innocent misunderstanding going on. Alternatively, maybe a letter if you're too nervous to ask them face to face.
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[personal profile] pure_radiantics 2017-12-27 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)

[Well now Kairi's very curious about the circumstances.]

Well, I can understand not trusting someone enough for that. I didn't mean to imply you shouldn't talk to them at all, but just about this. It still sounds like it'll be hard to hide any of this is if you live with them. I wish you the best of luck though, since you seem to have your heart in the right place.

pure_radiantics: (convo] flat smile)

[personal profile] pure_radiantics 2017-12-29 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
[She's rooting for you, Anon. Have a thumbs-up.]

Here's hoping you don't have to hide for very long, mystery person.