COMPLETELY ANONYMOUS POST!!

[chickshades]

When: April 25th
Who: ANON. YOU WILL NEVER KNOW!

give me some dating tips



[ All replies will be in anon unless otherwise noted in the tag header. Which will prob happen more than Bandou means for it to. ]

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[chickshades]

someone really cute
who gets shy when i smile at her
brunettes are nice
oh and shes gotta think my sunglasses are cool
and wanna go to arcades and stuff
but even more important is a long and lasting relationship
i dont want just a one night stand kind of thing

[koukai_kirai]

I see. My advice might not be what you're looking for, if that last part is important.

[He's only had one long-term relationship, and it just sort of... happened?]

[And kept happening. For years.]

[chickshades]

thats the most important part!
you have to be loyal to people you care about!/span>

[koukai_kirai]

Naturally. You don't have to care about each other for a little fling here and there, though.

For something more permanent... I suppose my experience would suggest that it's best to become friends first. Not with the expectation that something else will come from it, of course, but... being able to really understand and respect each other before you bring sex or romance into it gives a firm foundation to build on, if that's what you end up wanting. If you already care deeply about taking care of each other, and know what kind of things you can do to make them happy, there's a shorter way to go to a real relationship than if you're trying to approach strangers.